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Charles Henry Murch Jr 1894-1983
BIRTH 14 AUG 1894 • Warrensburg, New York, USA
DEATH 23 MAR 1983 • Boston, Suffolk, Massachusetts, USA
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Neale Faulkenham
Posted 11 jul 2009 by joekphipps
The following is an e-mail from Marjorie Welch Fairbanks to Joe Phipps. Marjorie is responding to a question about Neale Faulkenham who was her half-uncle and the half-brother of her father, Davison Moshier Welch.
Neale's parents were Marjorie Merriman Moshier and Mr. Murch.
When Marjorie died in 1926, she left two children, Davison and Neale. The children's maternal grandparents adopted Davison but not Neale. Neale was put up for adoption. Marjorie's e-mail talks about that situation. References to "Nan" are to Emma Gertrude Phipps, Marjorie's great-grandmother.
--- On Sat, 7/11/09, Marge Fairbanks wrote:
From: Marge Fairbanks
Subject: Re: Mystery Person
To: joe900@ameritech.net
Date: Saturday, July 11, 2009, 2:11 PM
Hi Joe,
I just got off the phone with Dad and asked him about Neale.....He is even more prolix than I am...so this will be a long one! Here goes:
There were three years between Dad and Neale. Their mother died when Dad was six and Neale was three. Dad already lived with Nan most of the time before Marjorie married Murch. She suffered from tuberculosis and was in and out of sanitoriums since she was in school. Dad had a maid, Mary, who mostly took care of him the years he went back and forth between Nan and his mother, because his mother was sick most of the time.
When Marjorie died (at age 29; b.1897- d.1926), Dad was already living with Nan. She wanted custody of both children, but Murch would not let her have Neale unless she paid him money for the custody. Nan refused to give him money, so he refused to let her have Neale. He let Neale stay with Aunt Minnie and Uncle Arthur Phipps for awhile, but he said if Nan wouldn't give him any money he would give Neale up for adoption to a black family. As Nan still refused him money, he adopted Neale out to the Faulkenhams. They were not a black family after all, but Dad doesn't know where Murch found them. The Faulkenhams were not well off, the husband worked in a laundry. So, it appears Murch acted out of spite so that Nan could not get Neale. Neale was the Faulkenham's only child and was extremely coddled by the mother.
In later years, Dad's father's family, Charles, Jenny and Marion Welch, tried to gain custody of Dad from Nan. But Nan fought it in court and won the suit so that she had permanent custody from then on.
As an adult, Neale located Murch working as a barber in Filene's and tried to reconnect with him. They went out to dinner a few times and Neale was happy to have found him, until Murch kept asking him for money. Neale refused and didn't have anything more to do with him after that.
Every Saturday, when Neale was a boy living with the Faulkenhams, Nan and Dad, and sometimes Paul Phipps or other members of the family, would visit Neale. Every time they went, Nan gave the Faulkenhams a check for $50 towards Neale's support. But, as I mentioned, Neale's adopted mother made him socially unfit. When Dad and Paul and Neale would play hard and perspire, she would make Neale come in and lay down with a cold cloth on his forehead, while the other boys continued to play. Eventually, Neale became the target of ridicule by schoolmates and he grew up a very lonely man always a loner. But, for many years he worked for the Waltham Paper Company and was their best salesman. The owner of the company favored Neale and he worked hard and had a successful career. Although he drank from 4:00 pm in the evening all night long, every night (Dad says)....he never missed work. But he isolated himself and finally died of alcoholism.
I have a round clay sculpted piece, hanging on my living room wall, of Neale's face as a very young boy that Nan sculpted. She was an artist, extremely creative, you know. That's where Dad got his talent. It's a great likeness of Neale. She kept a relationship with him throughout his boyhood. And I know my family did as I was growing up. He never married; and was a distinct character. He spent Christmases and Thanksgivings with us every year, and then at my home after I was married until the alcoholism became too much. Mother and Dad were with him when he died and he is buried in their family plot beside my mother and baby brother in Framingham, MA.
Dad added that he didn't know how much of this story Neale was ever aware of because they never discussed it between them. Neale was only three at the time he was adopted and Dad never wanted to tell him his father tried to sell him.
So, I guess Neale grew up knowing it was Murch who adopted him out, not Nan or the Phippses. Of course, whoever it was, there HAD to be some sense of rejection. Neale definitely did suffer from a sad boyhood and crippling isolation as an adult.
Marge
Neale Faulkenham
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Neale Faulkenham
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Marjorie Merriman Moshier
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Moshier Family circa 1900
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Moshier's Summer Cottage, Inlet, New York, USA
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- Gertrude Phipps Moshier (behind Will),
- Marjorie Merriman Moshier (in front of Will),
- Gladys Phipps Morley (sitting on step),
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Marjorie Merriman Moshier as a young woman. This photo was provided by her granddaughter, Marjorie Welch Fairbanks.
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- [S478] census 1920 USA NY, Year: 1920; Census Place: Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York; Roll: T625_1125; Page: 13B; Enumeration District: 257.
Record for Charles Murch (23) facts
Record for Alice Litzendorf (8) facts ...... (31)
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Charles Murch in the 1920 United States Federal Census
date: 8th Jan 1920
Lester E. Raysor
Name: Charles Murch
Age: 25
Birth: abt 1895
New York
Home: Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York
Street: Weddale Way
House: 242
Date: 1920
Race: White
Gender: Male
Relation: Head
status: Married
Spouse: Alice Murch
Father's Birthplace: New York
Mother's Birthplace: New York
Able to Speak English: Yes
Occupation: Salesman
Industry: Wagon-Feed
Employment Field: Own Account
Home Owned or Rented: Owned
Home Free or Mortgaged: Mortgaged
Able to Read: Yes
Able to Write: Yes
Household Members:
Name Age
Charles Murch 25 Head NY NY NY M salesman, wagon _?_
Alice Murch 23 wife NY NY NY M
Arline Murch 5y1m dau NY NY NY s
Llelewyn Murch 2y6m son NY NY NY s
Alice Litzendorf 46 aunt PA NY NY wid
Leona Litzendorf 20 cousin NY NY NY S nurse, in training
Source Citation
Year: 1920; Census Place: Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York; Roll: T625_1125; Page: 13B; Enumeration District: 257
Name Birth Arrival Residence
Florence Schicker New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Charles Murch New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Alice Murch New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Arline Murch New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Llelewyn Murch New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Alice Litzendorf Pennsylvania 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Leona Litzendorf New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Lewis R Werner New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Lillian Werner Canada 1909 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Raymond Werner New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Joseph Fink New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Francis Fink New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Joseph Fink New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Gordon Fink New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Fred Bertsche Pennsylvania 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Rose Bertsche New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Elizabeth Bertsche New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Arnold Bertsche New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Raymond Bertsche New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
William Whitty Canada 1897 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Rose Whitty Illinois 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Willard Whitty New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Margaret Whitty New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Kenneth Whitty New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Parnella Whitty New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Francis Whitty New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Frank Mets New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Mary Mets New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Mildred Thompson New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Paul Panelik Austria 1900 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Mary Panelik Poland 1907 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Agness Panelik New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Mary Panelik New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Catharine Panelik New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Paul Panelik New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Nicholas Lefkomski Poland 1900 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Clarence Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Marie Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Jennie Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Helen Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Edgar Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Lenora Morse New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
John Prichard England 1888 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Clara Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Charles Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Roy Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Ruth Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
John Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Naomi Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Martin R Prichard New York 1920 Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York, USA
Source Information
Ancestry.com. 1920 United States Federal Census [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2010. Images reproduced by FamilySearch.
Original data: Fourteenth Census of the United States, 1920. (NARA microfilm publication T625, 2076 rolls). Records of the Bureau of the Census, Record Group 29. National Archives, Washington, D.C. For details on the contents of the film numbers, visit the following NARA web page: NARA. Note: Enumeration Districts 819-839 are on roll 323 (Chicago City).
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Charles Murch in the 1920 United States Federal Census
date: 8th Jan 1920
Lester E. Raysor
Name: Charles Murch
Age: 25
Birth: abt 1895
New York
Home: Rochester Ward 22, Monroe, New York
Street: Weddale Way
House: 242
Date: 1920
Race: White
Gender: Male
Relation: Head
status: Married
Spouse: Alice Murch
Father's Birthplace: New… |
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